Things to do with friends in San Jose, CA

What are fun things to do with friends in San Jose?

We checked 56 real places in San Jose, CA from OpenStreetMap, including 8 places to eat, 8 bars and nightlife spots (21+) and 8 sights. Squad Plan's three day plans below draw on these places, and your group can vote on the one you like best.

Last updated 2026-10-14

We found 8 places to eat, 8 bars and nightlife spots (21+), 8 sights, 8 parks and outdoor spots, 8 game spots, 8 sports venues and 8 places to shop in San Jose, from OpenStreetMap map data.

Three ready-made day plans

Costs are rough estimates per person in US dollars. Check hours and prices before you go.

Plan A

Happy Hollow Park and Zoo to M.S. Gaslight Bar

Slow pace, good food, plenty of time to talk. Group of 4 for friends hangout.

Estimated total per person: $69–210

  1. 10:00Visit Happy Hollow Park and Zoo

    1300 Senter Road, San Jose, CA 95112

    Free to $25 (estimate)
  2. 11:00Explore Vista Montaña Park

    4041, San Jose, CA 95134

    Free
  3. 12:30Lunch at Pho Mai #1 Noodle House

    3074 Landess Avenue, San Jose, CA 95132

    $12–20 (estimate)
  4. 14:00Play at Golfland USA

    Winfield Boulevard, San Jose, CA 95118

    $15–30 (estimate)
  5. 15:00Get active at Tech CU Arena

    1500 South 10th Street, San Jose, CA 95112

    $10–25 (estimate)
  6. 16:00Browse The Garden at Willow Glen

    1165 Lincoln Avenue, San Jose, CA 95125

    Free to $40 (estimate)
  7. 18:30Dinner at Sendo Sushi

    3730 North 1st Street, San Jose, CA 95134

    $20–40 (estimate)
  8. 20:30Drinks at M.S. Gaslight Bar

    233 South White Road, San Jose, CA 95127

    $12–30 (estimate)
Plan B

Japanese American Museum of San Jose to Vintage Wine Bar

A fuller day of sights and new places. Group of 4 for friends hangout.

Estimated total per person: $69–210

  1. 10:00Visit Japanese American Museum of San Jose

    535 North 5th Street, San Jose, CA 95112

    Free to $25 (estimate)
  2. 11:00Explore Townsend Park

    Berryessa, San Jose, California

    Free
  3. 12:30Lunch at Sendo Sushi

    3730 North 1st Street, San Jose, CA 95134

    $12–20 (estimate)
  4. 14:00Play at Round1

    2200 Eastridge Loop, San Jose, CA 95122

    $15–30 (estimate)
  5. 15:00Get active at PAL Stadium

    680 South 34th Street, San Jose, CA 95116

    $10–25 (estimate)
  6. 16:00Browse Westfield Oakridge

    925 Blossom Hill Road, San Jose, CA 95123

    Free to $40 (estimate)
  7. 18:30Dinner at Gyro Express

    3730 North 1st Street, San Jose, CA 95134

    $20–40 (estimate)
  8. 20:30Drinks at Vintage Wine Bar

    368 Santana Row, San Jose, CA 95128

    $12–30 (estimate)
Plan C

Little Italy Museum and Cultural Center to Back Bar

High energy from start to finish. Group of 4 for friends hangout.

Estimated total per person: $69–210

  1. 10:00Visit Little Italy Museum and Cultural Center

    323 West Saint John Street, San Jose, CA 95110

    Free to $25 (estimate)
  2. 11:00Explore Florence Park

    Evergreen, San Jose, California

    Free
  3. 12:30Lunch at Sri's Kitchen

    3730 North 1st Street, San Jose, CA 95134

    $12–20 (estimate)
  4. 14:00Get active at SAP Center

    525 West Santa Clara Street, San Jose, CA 95113

    $10–25 (estimate)
  5. 15:00Browse Grand Century Mall

    1111 Story Road, San Jose, CA 95122

    Free to $40 (estimate)
  6. 16:00Watch a movie at AMC Eastridge 15

    2190 Eastridge Loop, San Jose, CA 95122

    $15–30 (estimate)
  7. 18:30Dinner at Okayama Xpress

    2587 North 1st Street, San Jose, CA 95131

    $20–40 (estimate)
  8. 20:30Drinks at Back Bar

    North 3rd Street, San Jose, CA 95113

    $12–30 (estimate)

Family friendly things to do in San Jose

Real places in San Jose for a day out with kids.

  1. Visit Alum Rock Science & Nature Center

    A good first stop for a family day. Check the hours before you go.

    Free to $25 (estimate)16260 Penitencia Creek Road, San Jose, CA 95127
  2. Visit Crescent Village Garden

    Free to visit, with room to run around. Bring snacks and water.

    FreeSan Jose, California
  3. Eat at Pho Mai #1 Noodle House

    A sit-down meal for the whole family. Call ahead for a big group.

    $12–20 (estimate)3074 Landess Avenue, San Jose, CA 95132
  4. Go to 4th Street Bowl

    Mini golf, bowling and arcades are easy for kids. Check the hours before you go.

    $15–30 (estimate)1441 North 4th Street, San Jose, CA 95112
  5. Go to The Tech Interactive IMAX

    Movies, games or bowling for a rainy or hot afternoon. Check showtimes and hours first.

    $15–30 (estimate)South Market Street, San Jose, CA 95113
  6. Snack stop at Ozon Cafe

    A quick stop for drinks and a snack between activities.

    $8–18 (estimate)2056 North Capitol Avenue, San Jose, CA 95132

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Date night ideas in San Jose

Real places in San Jose for two people, with a rough cost per person.

  1. Coffee at The Grind

    Short, cheap, and easy to make longer if it goes well.

    $8–18 (estimate)2050 Concourse Drive, San Jose, CA 95131
  2. Walk through Brooktree Park

    Free, and easy to talk while you walk side by side.

    FreeBerryessa, San Jose, California
  3. Look around Rosicrucian Egyptian Museum

    Something to look at together, so there is always something to talk about.

    Free to $25 (estimate)1660 Park Avenue, San Jose, CA 95126
  4. Play a round at Golfland USA

    Something to do together, so you are not just making small talk across a table.

    $15–30 (estimate)Winfield Boulevard, San Jose, CA 95118
  5. Dinner at Pho Mai #1 Noodle House

    Pick a table where you can talk, and share a few dishes if you both like that.

    $20–40 (estimate)3074 Landess Avenue, San Jose, CA 95132
  6. Drinks at Tap & Pour (21+)

    One drink, then decide together if the night keeps going.

    $12–30 (estimate)1701 Airport Boulevard, San Jose, CA 95110

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Things to do with a large group in San Jose

Real places in San Jose for a group of 10 or more people.

  1. Bowling at 4th Street Bowl

    Teams take turns, so everyone stays in the game. Book lanes ahead for a big group.

    $15–30 (estimate)1441 North 4th Street, San Jose, CA 95112
  2. Play at Cinemark Century Oakridge 20 XD and ScreenX

    Ask about group rates and book ahead before you go.

    $15–30 (estimate)925 Blossom Hill Road, San Jose, CA 95123
  3. Park time at Cataldi Park

    Bring a ball, a frisbee or lawn games. Free, and easy to split into smaller groups.

    FreeBerryessa, San Jose, California
  4. Dinner at Pho Mai #1 Noodle House

    Book ahead for a big table, and ask if they can seat your group together.

    $20–40 (estimate)3074 Landess Avenue, San Jose, CA 95132
  5. Drinks at LVL44 (21+)

    Only for groups where everyone is 21+. Ask about a reserved table for a big party.

    $12–30 (estimate)44 South Almaden Avenue, San Jose, CA 95113

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Weekend in San Jose with friends

A two-day plan of real places in San Jose, from Saturday morning to Sunday afternoon.

  1. Saturday morning: Bernal-Gulnac-Joice Ranch

    Start the day with a museum, gallery or other sight. Check opening days before you go.

    Free to $25 (estimate)372 Manila Drive, San Jose, CA 95119
  2. Saturday lunch: Pho Mai #1 Noodle House

    Sit down together for lunch. Book ahead if the group is big.

    $12–20 (estimate)3074 Landess Avenue, San Jose, CA 95132
  3. Saturday afternoon: Rocksprings Park

    Free, and easy to split up and meet again. Good for a walk between stops.

    FreeSan Jose, California
  4. Saturday night: Cash Only (21+)

    A drink or two to end the day. Everyone needs to be 21 or older.

    $12–30 (estimate)78 East Santa Clara Street, San Jose, CA 95113
  5. Sunday morning: coffee at Heytea

    A slow start for the last day. Quick, cheap, and easy to fit a group in.

    $8–18 (estimate)1628 Hostetter Road, San Jose, CA 95131
  6. Sunday afternoon: Lost Worlds Funtropolous

    Bowling, an arcade or a movie. Something to do together before heading home.

    $15–30 (estimate)5401 Camden Avenue, San Jose, CA 95124

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Birthday ideas for adults in San Jose

Real places in San Jose for a birthday the whole group will show up for.

  1. Birthday dinner at Pho Mai #1 Noodle House

    Book a table for the whole group and let the birthday person order first.

    $20–40 (estimate)3074 Landess Avenue, San Jose, CA 95132
  2. Play at CineArts @ Santana Row

    Something to do together beats only sitting and talking. Book ahead for a big group.

    $15–30 (estimate)3088 Olsen Drive, San Jose, CA 95128
  3. Drinks at The Caravan Lounge (21+)

    Finish the night with a round on the group for the birthday person.

    $12–30 (estimate)98 South Almaden Avenue, San Jose, CA 95113
  4. Visit Chinese American Historical Museum

    A low-key daytime start before dinner, good for a smaller group.

    Free to $25 (estimate)635 Phelan Avenue, San Jose, CA 95112
  5. Picnic at Bestor Art Park

    Bring a cake and some snacks. Free, and nobody has to shout over music.

    FreeSan Jose, California

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Things to do with friends under 21 in San Jose

Real places in San Jose for a group where some friends are under 21.

  1. Play at Golfland USA

    Games or fun for the group. Call ahead if the group is big.

    $15–30 (estimate)Winfield Boulevard, San Jose, CA 95118
  2. See a movie at The Tech Interactive IMAX

    Check showtimes first, and pick a film the whole group can agree on.

    $15–30 (estimate)South Market Street, San Jose, CA 95113
  3. Get active at The Park San Jose

    Play, swim or work out together. Some places need a pass or booking, so call first.

    $10–25 (estimate)1650 Monterey Road, San Jose, CA 95112
  4. Coffee or a snack at Ozon Cafe

    A cheap place to sit and hang out. Order something small and stay a while.

    $8–18 (estimate)2056 North Capitol Avenue, San Jose, CA 95132
  5. Eat at Pho Mai #1 Noodle House

    Order a few dishes to share to keep the bill down. Check the menu online first.

    $12–20 (estimate)3074 Landess Avenue, San Jose, CA 95132
  6. Hang out at Vista Montaña Park

    Free to visit. Bring a ball or a frisbee if you want to play.

    Free4041, San Jose, CA 95134

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Places in San Jose

Places to eat

Bars and nightlife (21+)

Sights

Parks and outdoor spots

Game spots

Sports venues

Places to shop

How much does a day out with friends cost in San Jose?

Across the three day plans above, a day out with friends in San Jose costs about $69 to $210 per person, from the lowest plan to the highest. Each total adds up the typical price of its stops, so treat it as a rough estimate and check prices before you go.

Frequently asked questions

What can a group do in San Jose for free?

Free places on our list include Vista Montaña Park, Crescent Village Garden and Townsend Park. Plans also leave time to wander around town at no cost.

Where can friends eat in San Jose?

Good places to start are Pho Mai #1 Noodle House, Ozon Cafe and Sendo Sushi. The day plans above include food stops from this list.

What is there to see in San Jose?

Sights on our list include Happy Hollow Park and Zoo, Bernal-Gulnac-Joice Ranch and Japanese American Museum of San Jose. The full list is in the places section below.

What are good things to do with kids in San Jose?

Try visit Alum Rock Science & Nature Center, visit Crescent Village Garden and eat at Pho Mai #1 Noodle House. Every idea here is a real mapped place, with a rough cost per person.

What are good date night ideas in San Jose?

Try coffee at The Grind, walk through Brooktree Park and look around Rosicrucian Egyptian Museum. Start small with coffee or a walk, and save dinner for when it is going well.

What are good things to do with a large group in San Jose?

Try bowling at 4th Street Bowl, play at Cinemark Century Oakridge 20 XD and ScreenX and park time at Cataldi Park. Book ahead for a group this size, and send the link so everyone can vote on the plan.

What can friends do on a weekend in San Jose?

Try saturday morning: Bernal-Gulnac-Joice Ranch, saturday lunch: Pho Mai #1 Noodle House and saturday afternoon: Rocksprings Park. Every stop is a real mapped place, with a rough cost per person.

What are good birthday ideas for adults in San Jose?

Try birthday dinner at Pho Mai #1 Noodle House, play at CineArts @ Santana Row and drinks at The Caravan Lounge (21+). Every idea here is a real mapped place, with a rough cost per person.

What can friends under 21 do together in San Jose?

Try play at Golfland USA, see a movie at The Tech Interactive IMAX and get active at The Park San Jose. Every idea here is a real mapped place. Costs are rough estimates.

Can Squad Plan make a custom plan for San Jose?

Yes. Pick the city, your group and the vibe, and Squad Plan gives you three plans your friends can vote on. It is free for 5 plans a week.

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